The Strength Only God Can Give, To a Daughter, Wife, and Mother of Seven Children!

a picture of Ruth Bonfeild Teresa Dear friend

In life A little girls dream is to have a white wedding with all the Cinderella perks. I do not know too many girls that grow up that do not have this dream. A Disney World dream for sure. Well, I want to share. I have a dear Friend named Ruthie. Yes, she met her prince while she was still in High School. Everything was as she states Roses and daisies.  Hence, life took a toll pretty much during their wedding or just a few months before this grand event.  Her new mother-in-law gets news from the doctor. Which makes Joey and Ruthie speed up their wedding plans.  Joey’s mother news is so big that the family is also in shock. Nevertheless, the love of this family brings them all to be even closer. Not only with each other but also having faith in the lord to get them through it all.

Now, as a new family would want to do.  Even as this family loses a loved one. There dreams of having children is a big part of there dreams. Both Joey and Ruthie share with me. They want a big family. For they both have come from large ones. That they could not see, NOT bringing a few bundles of joy into this world. While they are doing what all new married couples do. Is try, Try, and keep trying.  There trying and trying is not Totally bringing them the results they want. Ruthie and Joey seek out medical help. They then go with a medical plan of treatment. Which should help them in having some little blessings from above. God blesses them right away. They Get news that they have ben blessed with not only one but three bundles of joy. All is going well for the Bonfeild family. Life is grand. Well as life has a way of showing you that all is not grand all the time. Ruthie has to now face a loss that is so big. Never losing faith, her faith in the Lord is stronger than the loss. She is not happy in one way, but she knows God is in control. She deals with it gracefully. Yes, Ruthie and joey are still at a loss, but they seek to know that God is in control. They know that God is totally on the throne.  They even have faith to keep on this path of having children.  Quickly God blesses them again. They are what they think now on there way to having a large family. As their stories of there seven children are large. Joey and Ruthie are struck with more bad news.  Ruthie learns from a Knock at her door. That Being a mother is not easy at all. Her own rock being her own mother.  

Now the knock at the door is about her own mother.

This knock at the door is not only shocking to her but it is also making National News while the person at the door is sharing the news about her mother.

Please join me in listening to my dear friend share her story of finding her strength in the Lord while all types of hard-hitting news hit her family. I could not give this story the correct words by again writing about it so here is my interview with my dear friend.

The strength only God can give to a daughter first then a wife and a mother of seven

Who has been my rock during some of my hard times? She genuinely wants to share more of her life with you. For her story does not end really where we left off. Nevertheless, I do believe as I listened back over it when we were done. God has a message for someone today in being a mother and having children.  So, I am proud to stop there as my dear friend Ruthie is to for now. We will for sure come back and share mor of her life. Just know she does not waver in her faith. She leans on Philippians 4:13 in her life for all. Which the bible verse is just in case you do not know that one is. I can do all things with Christ who strengthens me.  

I pray this episode shows you that there truly is a God no matter again what is put in your life’s path. God will get his children through it all. Yes, we have to go through all types of life issues but having faith is something I pray you do not lose sight of. For he will be with you during it all. Only God knows Why!  Know that God never promises us an easy life while we are here. However, he does promise to get us through it all.  He does love you no matter your trials. Please read the books of James, 1 Peter, and Philippians to see we may have struggles in life. No Matter how hard our struggles are. We can have trust, joy, hope, belief, peace, and faith. That God is there for you and me. Jesus truly walks alongside us during these trials while we are here on earth. Yes, I do believe this with all of my heart, and I hope you see that too. Or learn that while listening or reading my blog.

Thank You to my dear Friend for sharing her story with me and the world. As I do miss her. I know she is only a phone call or text away. I do thank God for her bundles.  Of joy as well. For they do reach out to me at times to say they love me and want to make sure I am ok.  So, as I share this with you all. I do this podcast in memory of both of their grandmothers and siblings that are now in Heaven. Kristina, Joanna, and Emma   I Love you all dearly. XOXOXo

From Aunt Teresa!!

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Hello There, I am a very spiritual person. My identity in Christ alone. I am a Christian however, I have a relationship with the Lord. I am not a writer. I am just someone who wants to share my story with others. I was told that I should write a book one day. Therefore, I figured I would start a blog. I am also not a great writer so, with that I figured. The only way to get better is to start writing. They say practice makes perfect. so, lets see where it goes. I hope you enjoy my blog. Mistakes and all. I am a work in progress. :)

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